I was meeting up with an old friend (as in been friends for years now, not literally old) and we were talking about relationships and the way people work. It appears to us that maybe guys are ambitious and into dating in their mid twenties and then get hurt or burnt out or something and then are disasters for the next seven years. And then they meet a girl they do like, early thirties and all, and cannot make a move. This talk prompted me to make the statement: "Thirty is the new pussy". This of course is not always the case. I am pretty anti-generalizations. You never know where anyone is coming from. It is just disappointing when you meet someone and click and then they want to be "just friends" even though let's face it, you don't act like just friends. Or when you're dating a guy for a couple of months and there is a spark and then they act disinterested out of nowhere, claiming there was not in enough "energy" in the relationship and that he thought it was mutual. What does that mean? Stop being a bullshitter! Say a real reason. This is not just for romantic relationships. This is for life. Why can't people just say what they mean?! Don't pussyfoot around it. Be direct.
People in general...what is their deal?! Why are people assholes?! It's the little things that shows they are in their own world and do not care about anything else. Last night I came out of the bathroom stall at work and there were two girls blocking the sink, discussing how they have nice hair. Blah blah. They totally saw me. They did not move. I politely mentioned how I just would like to wash my hands, please and thanks. They said of course. They did not move. I said, "well that would require you to move." The girls moved an inch. I washed. Of course for me to leave the bathroom they would have to move again which of course they were too wrapped up in hair talk to give a thought to. I said: "You guys are really going to have to move now." They finally moved. Really people?! The other night at work, there was a guy standing obnoxiously close to me. There is plenty of room, move forward. This is straight up invasive. I finally ask him to please move up a little. He obliges...for like ten minutes. I turn around again and the dude is like an inch in front of me. I don't know what got into me but I pushed him. I literally put both hands on him and moved him forward. He turned around and STARED me down. Worse. Look. Ever. I calmly explained that I had asked him to move, thanks.
The point is, is that people need to man up. They need to be direct. I've gotten to the point where I am very direct but it is frustrating being direct with someone and still getting weak responses. Man up people! Secondly, stop being an asshole. Move out of the way. Realize there are other people there. Recognize!!
With all this being said, not EVERYONE is an asshole. I am lucky and grateful to have some great friends and family so I'm going to appreciate them for not being assholes. And also remember I'm The Shiiit. I'm not an asshole and it's a great feeling.
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